Organising a Wake

This is clearly a very distressing time for any family, or group, and in writing on the subject we are very aware of the sensitivity of the subject, but we believe that a great deal of the organisational burden of organising a wake, or celebration of life can be lifted by an experienced venue. The format of a wake, or celebration of life can be as flexible as you wish, from a formal event to a more casual get-together of family, friends, and loved ones. Organising a funeral reception of any type need not be stressful. You will perhaps be guided by your funeral director, or somebody trusted in your religious community, and from our extensive experience we know that these people are invaluable. If you choose to organise your own pre, or post funeral event, there are a few things to consider:

• Will the reception be private or public?
• How many people will be joining you at the service, and how many will be at the reception?
• How will you let people know about the reception, by word of mouth, invitation, or as a note in the Order of Service?
• Will you be providing food and drink, and if so do you have a preferred style of service?
• How long will the wake last?
• Is car parking available?
• Do you have a budget?

Of course, written down in list order like this, the process seems quite impersonal, the truth is that one of the reasons for choosing a professional service is that experienced venues, organisers, and Funeral Directors can remove some of the emotions for you. Suggestions can be made, and decisions taken without the distress associated with the other elements inevitably associated with dealing with a bereavement. Please be in no doubt whatsoever that these decisions are yours, and that we are here to make sure that the event is everything that you would hope for, without fuss, and always with complete respect for you, your loved ones, and the occasion.